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Campus Announcements
Sexual Assault Awareness Month: Supporting a Survivor
Department / Organization: Institutional Equity & Title IX
If someone comes to me and shares that they were sexually assaulted, what do I do?
1. Listen to the survivor and believe them. Let the survivor tell their story, as much or as little as they want to share. Do not press for for details that the survivor does not voluntarily share with you. "Thank you for sharing this with me. I believe you."
2. Never blame the survivor. Avoid questions that start with “why” because they can be victim blaming. Remember: a survivor is never responsible for their victimization. "I am so sorry this happen. It was not your fault."
3. Make sure the survivor is and feels safe. They may be worried about running into the person who caused them harm. The Office of Institutional Equity & Title IX Office coordinates a variety of supportive measures, (including housing accommodations, academic accommodations, no contact directives) and works with Mines Police to ensure safety on campus. A formal complaint does not need to be filed to receive this support.
4. Let the survivor know they have options. Many options exist for reporting, safety, academic support, and healing/wellness. Not everyone will react the same and there is not one 'next step' that fits all. Let them choose the correct course of action for them.
5. Support the survivor's decision. Sometimes a survivor chooses not to report at all. It is very important that if the survivor decides this is the best course of action for them, you support them.